Thoughts For Advent

"Behold, I am sending my messenger ahead of you; he will prepare your way. A voice of one crying out in the desert: 'Prepare the way of the Lord, make straight his paths.' "
~Mark 1:2-3

Lo, in the silent night
A child to God is born
And all is brought again
That ere was lost or lorn

Could but thy soul, O man,
Become a silent night!
God would be born in thee
And set all things aright.
~15th Century


"Advent is apocalyptic, but the end of time is the beginning of eternity,and the end of timekeeping is the beginning of wisdom.
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~Kenneth G. Davis, OFM Conv


Friday, December 11, 2009

The Annunciation: A Meditation

I wrote the following meditation for a prayer meeting. I thought I would share it here. The meditation is based on the Annunciation in Luke 1:26~38.

An Intimate and Insightful Moment With Mary
A young Jewish girl named Mary is asleep in her room. She is awakened by a bright light. This light she finds out is from one of God's angels. This angel's name is Gabriel and he has a message for this young girl. Gabriel addresses Mary as "full of grace". He sees that she is startled and a bit frightened, but tells her not to be afraid for God has found favor with her, hence the reason for his strange greeting. Yes, God has found favor with Mary, so much so that He has chosen her to be the mother of His only Son!
Now Mary is confused because she has never been with a man; how could it be that she will become a mother? Well, Gabriel explains all of that to her as well.
Now this angel must await Mary's reply. It was probably only the briefest of moments, but one in which all of heaven and earth held its breath!
Once Mary understood this was all from God, she immediately gave her consent, "Let it be done to me according to your word." She said yes!
These 15 or so years of Mary's young life have led to this one incredible moment. A moment and a "yes" that would change Mary's life. This baby, Jesus, the Son of God, would not only change Mary's life, but ours as well.
Prayer
Dear Jesus,
Your Mother had the courage to say yes to God's will putting aside her own. How often You ask me to bear You to my little part of the world and how often to I shrink away in fear and lack of trust.
Give me the heart of Mary, a heart that surrenders to Your every prompting. Help me to remember always, that I am Your handmaid, Your lowly servant, so that I may give my consent for You to be conceived in my heart and soul and be born into my little part of the world.
Let me heed the angel's voice and not be afraid knowing that You will send Your Holy Spirit and Your power will overshadow me in all You call me to do.
Amen.

Thursday, December 10, 2009

The Face Of Heaven

This is Steven Curtis Chapman's latest single, Heaven Is The Face I haven't read the full story on it yet, but judging from the lyrics, he wrote it for his daughter who was killed in an accident about a year ago.
I thought I would borrow it today for the sentiments are mine as well especially today.
For my own little girl who would have, should have turned 21 today and for all those who have lost a child.
In loving memory.

Tuesday, December 8, 2009

Feast Of The Immaculate Conception


In the Constitution Ineffabilis Deus of 8 December, 1854, Pius IX pronounced and defined that the Blessed Virgin Mary "in the first instance of her conception, by a singular privilege and grace granted by God, in view of the merits of Jesus Christ, the Savior of the human race, was preserved exempt from all stain of original sin."

Prayer of the Immaculate Conception

O God, who by the Immaculate Conception of the Blessed Virgin Mary, didst prepare a worthy dwelling place for thy Son, we beseech thee that, as by the foreseen death of this, thy Son, thou didst preserve her from all stain, so too thou wouldst permit us, purified through her intercession, to come unto thee. Through the same Lord Jesus Christ, thy Son, who livest and reignest with thee in the unity of the Holy Spirit, God, world without end.
Amen.

Sunday, December 6, 2009

Feast Of St Nicholas~More Than Santa Claus


I knew today's date rang a bell (no Christmas pun intended) for some reason. It is the feast day of St Nicholas. Unfortunately he gets "bumped" so to speak, on the Latin Rite calendar, because it is Sunday. This is not the case with our Eastern Rite brethren.
Thanks to Abbot Joseph at Word Incarnate, I was pleasantly and beautifully reminded of this great saint's feast day and his role as intercessor and overseer of our souls.
So instead of my usual saint feast day type of post, I am going to direct you to Abbot Joseph's post for today; just click the Word Incarnate link above to read his post.

Second Sunday of Advent~The Voice In The Wilderness

St John the Baptist Bearing Witness by Francesco Granacci

John the Baptist was the voice crying in the wilderness, "Prepare the way of the Lord; make straight His paths." As this Advent season continues, his voice can still be heard. It cries out to each one of us, but we must listen for it and then act on it.
St Paul tells us in today's second reading (Philippians 1:4~6, 8~11) , "...that the one who has begun a great work in you will continue to complete it until the day of Christ Jesus." That great work was started in us at our baptism. The voice began its whisperings then, and it continues. God began the work, but He will not complete it without our consent and cooperation with His grace.
We can ask ourselves during this second week of Advent as we continue to prepare the way for our Lord's second coming, "Have I heard the voice crying out in the wilderness of my heart and soul and acted on it by receiving the sacraments and drawing on their graces in living my faith each day? Or have I begun to ignore the voice, letting things slip a bit?"
Our Lady heard the voice; in her case it came from the Angel Gabriel, but through Gabriel, God was asking Mary's consent to bring the great work He had begun in her to completion in the birth of His Son. The Son, our Lord Jesus Christ in whom we are all baptized and brought in to share in His life.
Let us prayerfully continue this Advent season making straight His paths in our hearts.
Continued Advent Blessings!

Friday, December 4, 2009

My Review Of How To Pray Well

My latest review for Catholic Company is the book How to Pray Well by Raoul Plus, S.J.

How To Pray Well by Raoul Plus, S.J. is wonderful book to add to your library of books on prayer.
In this book, Father Plus discusses in great detail the four major types of prayer: Adoration, Thanksgiving, Repentance and Petition.
I especially liked the section on the prayer of Adoration because as the author states, it is "the most perfect prayer." In this type of prayer, "we forget ourselves entirely and think of God alone."
He also illustrates how the prayer of adoration and the prayer of thanksgiving are related when we thank God, not so much for the things He has done for us (which is important), but when we thank Him for "the riches with which He Himself is infinitely endowed." In other words, we thank God for His being God!
When Father Plus discusses the prayer of Repentance, he talks about the "sense of sin"; that knowledge of having done something wrong that comes with a well~formed conscience. He says that remorse is a great grace and remains even after a soul is pardoned as an incentive to further prayer.
In one of the chapters on the prayer of Petition, the author quotes the words of our Lord to Ven. Balthasar Alvarez. Our Lord says to him, "Why are you so moderate in your requests, when God is so free with His gifts?" This quote brings into perspective the importance and the power in praying for spiritual and temporal favors for others as well as for ourselves.
This book is a treasure trove of advice and instuction on prayer. In reading it, I have found ways to add more meaning and depth to my own prayerlife.
While the book is a mere 174 pages, it is not a quick or easy read. I found it necessary to give some time between chapters and I even took some notes. This book is really 4 separate mini books within one larger one; each type of prayer is its own book subdivided into separate chapters. Having said that, it is well worth the time and effort and I highly recommend it. We all need ways to deepen our prayer life; this book will certainly help the reader to do so.

*Note: Nothing but a copy of the book reviewed here was exchanged for this review.

Thursday, December 3, 2009

Let God Tickle You

One of the devotionals I am using as part of my Advent reading is Daybreaks put out by Liguori Press. My parish is kind enough to distribute these little booklets each Advent and Lent. The short meditations in this year's issue are by Kenneth G. Davis, O.F.M Conv.
Today's meditation really made me think about my sense of joy in recognizing the source of that joy. It also made me think about those times I fail to recognize it.
Have you ever tried to tickle yourself? Go ahead; I will give you a minute to try. Can't do it can you? In fact it is impossible for some reason. However, someone else can cause the uncontrollable laughter that results from being tickled.
After reading Fr. Davis' meditation today, I thought about all he was saying about how joyous we should always be because we know that God is always with us. That thought alone should put a perpetual grin on our faces. But as he points out, how often do we have the scowls of the Pharisees on our faces. They did not, would not, recognize God in their midst. No wonder they never smiled!
When I am really honest with myself and think about those times that I loose my cool, become impatient, or just walk around looking like I have the weight of the entire world on my shoulders, it is because I forget and lose the Presence of God that I know is within me.
Like being tickled, we can not create our own joy; our joy comes from Another. Advent is a good time to reflect on this so that we can rejoice and rejoice heartily in the Lord.
So go on, let our awesome God tickle you to the point of uncontrollable joy and laughter that you can't help but spread to everyone with whom you come in contact.
Advent Blessings!

Monday, November 30, 2009

St Andrew~The First Called

St Andrew was first a disciple of John the Baptist, but at John's words: "Behold the Lamb of God", Andrew knew that there was one greater than John that he should follow. When Jesus realized Andrew was following behind him, Jesus asked him: "Whom do you seek?" Andrew inquired of Jesus about where he lived; Jesus simply replied, "Come and see." In a relatively short time this disciple would come to recognize Jesus as Messiah. So it is that St Andrew became the first of Jesus' disciples. He would then tell his brother Peter.
Andrew and Peter would eventually give up their fishing business to follow Christ at all times.
It is believed that Andrew went to Greece after the Ascension of Our Lord. He would be given the crown of martyrdom by being put to death on a cross to which he was tied, not nailed. He would suffer for two days before dying, but continued to preach to those who gathered around him in those two days.

Prayer To St Andrew
O glorious St. Andrew, you were the first to recognize and follow the Lamb of God. With your friend, St. John, you remained with Jesus for that first day, for your entire life, and now throughout eternity. As you led your brother, St. Peter, to Christ and many others after him, draw us also to Him. Teach us to lead others to Christ solely out of love for Him and dedication in His service. Help us to learn the lesson of the Cross and to carry our daily crosses without complaint so that they may carry us to Jesus. Amen.

St Andrew Christmas Novena
Hail and blessed be the hour and moment in which the Son of God was born of the most pure Virgin Mary, at midnight, in Bethlehem, in piercing cold. In that hour, vouchsafe, O my God! to hear my prayer and grant my desires, through the merits of Our Saviour Jesus Christ, and of His Blessed Mother. Amen.

(It is piously believed that whoever recites the above prayer fifteen times a day from the feast of St. Andrew (30th November) until Christmas will obtain what is asked.)

Imprimatur
+MICHAEL AUGUSTINE, Archbishop of New York
New York, February 6, 1897


Sunday, November 29, 2009

How Can I Prepare The Way For The Lord?

The Annunciation by Caravaggio

As another Advent begins today, this is the question I find myself pondering. The Church teaches us that in the first half of this holy season we are to prepare for Christ's coming at the end of time. Today's readings, especially the Gospel certainly illustrate this. No one knows the hour or the day of our Lord's second coming (despite what the Mayan calendar says), so all the more reason to be prepared~not in anxious worry, but in quiet, prayerful preparation and in hopeful anticipation.
I often think of our Blessed Mother during these four weeks. I guess you could say her Advent lasted nine months! Maybe it was even longer because in reality her whole life led to this moment. When the Angel Gabriel appeared to her to ask her if she would be the Mother of God, she gave her fiat and then began to prepare.
This is what Advent is for; to prepare our hearts and minds for our Lord's coming, not just at Christmas, for in the fullness of time that has already occurred, but also for when He comes again in all His glory at the end of time.
So as this season of preparation, anticipation and hope begins, ask yourself this same question, "How can I prepare the way for the Lord in my own heart?" Ask Our Lady to help you, for it is always her greatest desire to bring us to her Son. The three kings followed the star in Bethlehem, may we find the Christ child by following the light of the Virgin Mary, for the light she reflects is that of Jesus, the Light of the World.

Dear Blessed Mother,

As we begin this holy season, help us to prepare our hearts and minds for the coming of your Beloved Son, Jesus. May we give our "yes" to God as you did so that we may give birth to Christ in our own day and time.
We ask this through the same Christ our Lord.
Amen.

Have a Blessed Advent!

Saturday, November 28, 2009

Daughter Turns One!


Daughter of the King is celebrating its first birthday this weekend! I really can't believe I have been doing this for a whole year already. Then again, I know better; none of this is me. Since very little thought went into starting this blog, I have to believe it is something God wanted me to do. My blog description says this is a place for my Catholic musings, and it is and will continue to be, but I know it has also gone beyond that. The comments, you my readers and followers have left me over this last year have shown me that some of what gets written actually helps and edifies you in your faith. Again, I take very little, if any credit for that. As I have said before I don't consider myself a writer.
The Catholic blogging community is an amazing place, and I am glad to be a part of it. Our good God has rewarded and blessed me with loyal followers and readers who with their own blogs help me on my walk of faith. The Enemy uses this form of technology for his evil ends, it is so good to see that so many use it for the good of glorifying God and furthering His kingdom here on earth. I am sure if St Paul were around today he would have a laptop and a blog!
As you can see, I have made a few changes. The new background is for the Advent and Christmas season we are about to enter. I also made a slight change in my template. I thought I'd move things around a bit. I have also designed a new blog button. You can copy it from the sidebar and paste it to your own blogs if you would like. The picture is a wood carving of Mary Magdalen; the artist is unknown.
As for content, it will remain pretty much the same. However, one change for this season of Advent and Christmastide will be that while I will continue to keep my Sundays as blog~free as possible, I will open my Sunday posts for comments during this sacred season so that we can share our thoughts and prayers as a Catholic and Christian community. I've been thinking of doing a series of meditations or reflections for each of the Sundays. We'll see what the Holy Spirit has in mind for this.
One thing I will not do on this blog is stray from its Catholic content. Anything you read here will always be in line with Magesterial teaching. If it is not, I will rely on those of you among my Catholic readers to correct me (charitably :) I have always welcomed anyone who wishes to read and comment to do so as long as the comments remain charitable. You don't have to agree with what I say, just play nicely in the combox.
Finally, I would like to thank all of you who read and comment on a regular basis. It is only because of you and God's grace that Daughter of the King continues. I am looking forward to another year of posting and sharing thoughts and comments wth you, and maybe a few new readers as well.
May God continue to bless each of you and may we all have a blessed Advent season!

*Here is where it all began, my first post~New Explorations

Thursday, November 26, 2009

Thanksgiving 2009


A Happy and Blessed Thanksgiving to all my readers and their families.
God Bless you all!

Wednesday, November 25, 2009

St Catherine Of Alexandria:Patroness of East And West

St Catherine of Alexandria with Symbols of her Martyrdom

I have always been captivated by the lives of the saints, but the lesser known ones really seem to get my attention. Such is the case with the saint whose feast we celebrate today~St Catherine of Alexandria.
Not much is known of this woman who was born in the year 282 and died in 305. Although much of her life remains a mystery, enough is known that this saint is venerated in the Roman Catholic Church as well as several Orthodox Churches.
She is sometimes known as Catherine of the Wheel because she was sentenced to die by the breaking wheel, an instrument of torture. Legend has it that when she touched the wheel, it broke, so she was beheaded instead.
St. Catherine of Alexandria by Caravaggio

Another legend says that she was carried by the angels to Mount Sinai, where in the 6th century the emperor Justinian built St Catherine's monastery. As intriguing as the legends are, there is very little evidence to support their validity. However this does not diminish her power as an intercessor. Most versions of her legends establish that at the moment of her death, she entreats God to answer the prayers of those who invoke her name.
St Catherine is patroness to many~ philosophers, theologians, schoolchildren, nurses, and those who work with a wheel (potters, spinners etc) are just to name a few.
So no matter what your state in life, say a prayer to St Catherine of Alexandria today, this wise and courageous virgin who went with lighted lamp to meet her Lord.

Monday, November 23, 2009

God's Grace Abounded

God's grace abounded this past weekend here in the Archdiocese of Newark, NJ. As I posted last Friday, I would be serving as a team member for a Rachel's Vineyard retreat. Miracles of spiritual and emotional healing occurred all weekend long!
This was our 49th retreat in this archdiocese, and our Lord is always faithful and always shows up to pour out His grace, mercy and forgiveness on those who come to ask for it. I am always amazed at the transformation that takes place in just 3 days; it truly is the Paschal Mystery being lived out.
It is a privilege to serve our Lord in this ministry. My own healing is furthered each time I serve.
Thank you to all of you who prayed for these men and women this weekend. Know that your prayers were heard and answered.

Sunday, November 22, 2009

Sunday Meditations: Christ The King

As the Church celebrates the Solemnity of Christ the King today, I thought I would share this video of Third Day's King of Glory. Enjoy the music and beautiful images, as well as the powerful message of God's love through His Son.



May Jesus Christ, King of Kings and Lord of Lords be praised forever!

Have a Blessed Sunday!

Friday, November 20, 2009

Many Came To Be Healed By Him: A Prayer Request

I would like to ask you, my kind readers, for your prayers this weekend. Our archdiocese is having another Rachel's Vineyard retreat. For those who may be unfamiliar with this ministry, it is for men and women who have suffered from the sin of abortion and its effects. (You can click the above link for more information)
I have the privilege, once again, to serve as a team member for this weekend's retreat. There are 12 men and women coming to receive the healing and forgiveness that only our Lord can give. This the 49th retreat in our archdiocese (Newark, NJ)
Please pray that these men and women allow Christ to come into their hearts to heal and soften them so that they will not only experience His love and forgiveness, but also that of their aborted children. I would ask that you keep the team members in prayer as well, that we may come to serve as humble servants of our Lord, the Divine Physician.
Thank You and God Bless.
"When I found Him who my heart loves, I took hold of Him and would not let Him go."
Song of Songs 3:4

Only after discovering Jesus, do we realize, "this is what I was waiting for." ~Pope Benedict XVI





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