Pride In Expectation
Claim no honor in the king's presence, nor occupy the place of great men; for it is better that you be told, "Come up closer!" than that you be humbled before the prince,
Reflecting on today's Mass readings, the message is very clear; it is that of humility. Almost every saint has had something to say on this virtue, seeing it as the foundation of all the other virtues. Important as it is, it is also one of the most difficult to cultivate. Our society sees it as a weakness when in reality it is a sign of strength.
Our Lord's words in today's Gospel keep playing over in my mind; those words about taking the lowest place at the table. These words made me think of something else our society seems to be filled with~ disappointment.
I have asked myself why this is and the only answer I can come up with is that many people today seem to have an attitude of entitlement and expectation. All of it is pride which is the opposite of humility. I am not saying that we shouldn't have certain expectations in life, but that sense of "the world and all those in it owe me" is at the root of people's disappointment. Jesus gives us the antidote to this by telling us to take the lowest place. For by doing this, it is quite possible that we will be asked to come higher and be given more than we expected.
Having expectations that are too high, either of ourselves or others, will surely lead to disappointment. If we humble ourselves first, letting go of the sense of entitlement, we will be asked to come higher and be given more than we ever hoped for~ perhaps not in this life, but most certainly in the next at the heavenly banquet Our Lord has prepared.
Whenever my pride seems to be getting the best of me, I say the Litany of Humility. Mother Teresa and her sisters recited this prayer daily. I have to admit that it is not an easy prayer to pray and mean. Often I will concentrate on one line or section of it depending on where my life is lacking humility.
The other thing that puts me back in my proper place is God's words to Catherine of Siena: "I Am Who Am, you are she who is not." That is true humility; knowing who God is and who we are not.
Jesus and His Mother are our best examples of how to live out humility. May we follow their example as the saints surely did.
The Litany of Humility